Aftermath
Fires are still burning in Northern California; thousands of people remain displaced as recovery slowly begins…these are physical realities.
Cal Fire expects full containment by Wednesday. Expressions of gratitude for the Fire Fighting, Police/Sheriff’s Community the CHP, locally, as well as those who came from around the world, have no full depth or boundaries. Their work and sacrifice are treasures beyond price.
I invite you to check out www.pressdemocrat.com, sharing stories and insights into the scope of loss, devastation, heroism, optimism and opportunity. Especially the cogent account and reflection of SSU Professor Stefan Kiesbye, in the Forum Section – Page B13 – of Sunday, October 22.
The emotional realities are front and center too; shock, numbness, disbelief, denial, grief, anger, guilt, sadness and depression.
Everyone has been impacted in some way. People are joining together; there is a tremendous outpouring of love, strength and support. It is now so vitally important to begin the process of emotional healing.
Allow people to help. Volunteers are prolific. Neighbors generous; accept these gifts of love. Moving toward acceptance requires admitting, expressing and letting go of anger, grief, and guilt; allowing a full realization of the tenuous fragility of life, as well as the depths of strength, love and compassion. Let tears flow when they come, allowing without judgment space for others to cry or not cry.
Lean into and on your faith. You may think that you don’t have active faith, but there are spiritual roots. Regardless of where you feel you are on the spectrum of faith and belief, take what you have and build upon it…one step at a time. Trust the power of love!
In crisis is opportunity. As the land heals and new growth springs forth, so too, will personal growth. Finding strength and courage you didn’t know you had, discovering a deeper faith, appreciating a greater love…all fruits of personal and spiritual growth.
Physical recovery and personal growth are processes, not events. Allow the process.
Blessings!
