Archive for the ‘Dreams’ Category
Journeying
For the fourth time in three years, fire ravages my heart.
I was born and raised in St. Helena. I moved to the Sonoma Valley when I was 29; later moving to Santa Rosa, and subsequently migrating to West Sonoma County in my early forties.
I spent the second grade at Foothills School in Deer Park; spent decades swimming the warm waters of Putah Creek and then Lake Berryessa after the dam was built. I have hiked the Pallisades, lived in the Toll House on Lawly Toll Rd; swam the icy waters of Las Posades; spent hours playing at the Old Bale Mill before it became a historic State Park. I love Glass Mountain and my ‘…hills of home.’
I have hiked hours and hours in Annadel and Armstrong; several Regional Parks; Sugarloaf; part of the Kortum Trail and Bodega Head. I have played at Goat Rock and Portugese Beach, flown my kites at the top of Coleman Valley Rd.; swam in the Russian River and Lake Sonoma after the dam was built; marveled at the history of the Round Barn…loving the ‘hills of my second home.’
Watching the tree-filled landscapes and landmarks of childhood through to my twilight years, that have so unconditionally supported the journey to my authentic self, being transmuted by fire, brings a flood of grief into my soul-self. Tears flow unbidden, crossing my cheeks, dripping from my face into the abyss of change.
The heat in the crucible of growth is more intense than I ever could have imagined at this time in my life. Peace and comfort come as the authentic self accepts and allows; observing and engaging the unfolding.
Blessings!
Photo Credit – Alvin A.H. Jornada/The Press Democrat, Sept. 29, 2020
Repetition
As a people, a nation, a tribe, humanity struggles to find a way through the miasma of our civilization. The Frankenstein Monster we have created threatens our survival on a daily basis in myriad forms; seen and unseen.
“I see the world being slowly transformed into a wilderness. I hear the approaching thunder that, one day, will destroy us too. I feel the suffering of millions.” ~Anne Frank, The Diary of a Young Girl
Digging deeply into our soul-selves, pursuing faith, trusting the Numinous to lead us out of the wilderness, demands that we find the necessary tools and strategies for balance and survival.
One tool I find increasingly helpful and supportive is Mark Nepo’s, The Book of Awakening. The entry for September 23 is Repetition is Not Failure.
“There is no expected pace for inner learning. What we need to learn comes when we need it, no matter how old or young, no matter how many times we have to start over, no matter how many times we have to learn the same lesson. We fall down as many times as we need to, to learn how to fall and get up. We fall in love as many times as we need to, to learn how to hold and be held. We misunderstand the many voices of truth as many times as we need to, to truly hear the choir of diversity that surrounds us. We suffer our pain as often as is necessary for us to learn how to break and how to heal. No one really likes this, of course, but we deal with our dislike in the same way, again and again, until we learn what we need to know about the humility of acceptance.”
Be kind to yourself. Be gentle. Muzzle the inner critic. Actively engage self-care. Take time out. In the depth of your soul-self seek the sanctuary of inner peace. And when you find it, visit often!
Blessings!
Balance
As the struggle continues to find, and/or to maintain our emotional, spiritual and physical balance in the milieu of crisis fatigue, I share this quote with you this week. It is a good piece upon which to meditate.
“Balance is a feeling derived from being whole and complete; it’s a sense of harmony. It is essential to maintaining quality in life and work.” ~Joshua Osenga
Stay safe!
Many blessings!!
Spirit Walker
I love poetic expression; each piece pioneering territory unexplored. Insight, comfort, inspiration, creativity, personal process, social reflection, and prayer are symbolically revealed in countless forms.
The pieces that follow are from a lovely book of poems by Nancy Wood, with paintings by Frank Howell–Spirit Walker. Enjoy!
Spirit Walker
Spirit walker, with long legs poking out of rain clouds
Along the mesa tops,
Listen to our prayers for understanding.
Spirit walker, with strong arms embracing the wounded Earth,
We ask forgiveness for our greed.
Spirit walker, with footsteps echoing like promises
Across the aching land,
Give fire and ice to purify us.
Spirit walker, with tears that fall as Snow and Rain,
Heal our forests and our rivers,
Our homes and the hearts of all creatures.
Spirit walker, heed the cry of every living thing,
And bathe the Earth with harmony.
Native Blessing
Bless these our circumstances.
Bless the hardship and the pain.
Bless the hunger and the thirst.
Bless the locusts and the drought.
Bless the things which do not turn out right.
Bless those who take all and give not.
In these circumstances, find growth.
In growth, discover clarity.
In clarity, an inner vision.
Many blessings!
Fear
Stepping Out of Fear
“I will always have fears, but I need not be my fears, for I have other places within myself from which to speak and act.” ~ Parker J. Palmer
“No feeling takes over our lives more suddenly or more completely than fear. It seems to come up from nowhere and, in a blink or swallow, can infect everything.”
The above quotes come from Mark Nepo’s The Book of Awakening, August 30 entry page 284. They succinctly express our relationship with fear.
Our feelings come and go as they please. The power to control their effect lies squarely in how we choose to react. I really resonate with Parker Palmer when he says, ‘I have other places within myself from which to speak and act.’
Fear is a powerful, useful emotion. It alerts us to the threat of harm, to the presence of danger, physical and psychological.
Beyond the personal realm, fear can be used as a weapon of manipulation to gain control of others through religion, government, media, societal norms, and by individuals in inter-dependent relationships.
“Neither a man nor a crowd nor a nation can be trusted to act humanely or to think sanely under the influence of great fear.” ~Bertrand Russell
The power to choose to entertain or not entertain fear is up to us. Each of us finding the methods, tools and strategies that work toward overcoming our fears. Last week’s blog, Staying Calm and Centered, is filled with practices, with actions we can take to master fear.
“He who has overcome his fears will truly be free.” ~Aristotle
Blessings!
Being Real
“Mana is a term originally used in Polynesian and Melanesian cultures to describe an extraordinary power or force residing in a person or an object, a sort of spiritual electricity that charges anyone who touches it. Carl Jung later defined the term as ‘the unconscious influence of one being on another.’ What Jung speaks to is the fact that the energy of being real has more power than outright persuasion, debate, or force of will. He suggests that being who we are always releases an extraordinary power that, without intent or design, affects the people who come in contact with such realness.
The beautiful and simple truth of this can be seen in looking at the sun. The sun, without intent or will or plan or sense of principle, just shines, thoroughly and constantly. By being itself, the sun warms with its light, never withholding or warming only certain things of the Earth. Rather, the sun emanates in all directions all the time, and things grow. In the same way, when we are authentic, expressing our warmth and light in all directions, we cause things around us to grow. When our souls like little suns express the light of who we are, we emanate what Jesus called love and what Buddha called compassion, and the roots of community lengthen.
In this way, without any intent to shape others, we simply have to be authentic, and a sense of mana, of spiritual light and warmth, will emanate from our very souls, causing others to grow—not toward us, but toward the light that moves through us. In this way, by being who we are, we not only experience life in all its vitality, but, quite innocently and without design, we help others be more thoroughly themselves. In being real, in staying devoted to this energy of realness, we help each other grow toward the one vital light.”
~Mark Nepo, The Book of Awakening, pg. 106
Blessings!
Social Distancing
We are all acutely aware of the controversy surrounding wearing a mask and practicing social distancing. I believe social distancing is not an accurate term.
What we are, in fact, doing is physical distancing. This behavior should be labeled as such.
The connotation that comes with social distancing implies a greater scope of relating to each other. Socializing by definition is the act or practice of participating in social activities…mingling with others; inherent most social activity is physical closeness…movies, sports events, parades, fairs, family gatherings, weddings, funerals, etc.
Eye contact, smiles, hugs, and intimate conversations are all part of socializing. But physical distancing limits or prohibits many of these activities. However, it is critically important that we don’t forego social contact, creating isolation, anxiety and depression. A smile can be seen in the eyes even when a mask covers most of the face. Cards, letters, e-mails, texting, face time, zoom and connecting with friends and loved ones by phone are also part of social contact.
I invite you to practice physical distancing, but stay connected to others.
Blessings!
Quotes to Ponder
These are such stressful times. I chose three short quotes upon which we can meditate.
“Every moment and every event of every man’s life on earth plants something in his soul.” ~Thomas Merton
“Never give up. Never give in. Never become hostile… Hate is too big a burden to bear.” ~John Lewis
“Keep your face always toward the sunshine – and shadows will fall behind you.” ~Walt Whitman
Take good care!
Blessings.
Resilience
Resilience wafted through my consciousness in the wee hours of the morning…it is July 4th.
Synonyms for resilience are: flexibility, strength, durability, pliability, sturdy and tough. Synonyms so apt to surviving the intense and radical shifts humanity is experiencing circa 2020.
According to www.stressresilientmind.co.uk, the 5 skills of resilience are:
- self-awareness
- attention-flexibility and stability of focus
- letting go-physically
- letting go-mentally
- accessing and maintaining positive emotion
The Angel Cards Book (Tyler & Drake, World Tree Press 1981), has this wonderful quote for the Angel Card of Resilience, “Take what comes in your stride and let your energy rebound. Build positive momentum, elasticity, and endurance. Show up with equanimity regardless of what is going on.”
Great counsel for turbulent moments of change.
I invite you this week to nurture your spirit of resilience.
Blessings!
Life
“Our life always expresses the result of our dominant thoughts.” ~Soren Kierkegaard
“Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” ~Marie Curie
“Life is ten percent what happens to you and ninety percent how you respond to it.” ~Lou Holtz
Quotes to ponder as we move through retrogrades, planetary as well as in our collective consciousness.
Continued Blessings!
