Insights – Melannie Thomas

Archive for the ‘Intuitive Guidance’ Category

I love poetic expression; each piece pioneering territory unexplored.  Insight, comfort, inspiration, creativity, personal process, social reflection, and prayer are symbolically revealed in countless forms.

The pieces that follow are from a lovely book of poems by Nancy Wood, with paintings by Frank Howell–Spirit Walker.  Enjoy!

 Spirit Walker

Spirit walker, with long legs poking out of rain clouds

Along the mesa tops,

Listen to our prayers for understanding.

Spirit walker, with strong arms embracing the wounded Earth,

We ask forgiveness for our greed.

Spirit walker, with footsteps echoing like promises

Across the aching land,

Give fire and ice to purify us.

Spirit walker, with tears that fall as Snow and Rain,

Heal our forests and our rivers,

Our homes and the hearts of all creatures.

Spirit walker, heed the cry of every living thing,

And bathe the Earth with harmony.

Native Blessing

Bless these our circumstances.

Bless the hardship and the pain.

Bless the hunger and the thirst.

Bless the locusts and the drought.

Bless the things which do not turn out right.

Bless those who take all and give not.

In these circumstances, find growth.

In growth, discover clarity.

In clarity, an inner vision.

Many blessings!

Stepping Out of Fear

“I will always have fears, but I need not be my fears, for I have other places within myself from which to speak and act.”  ~ Parker J. Palmer

“No feeling takes over our lives more suddenly or more completely than fear.  It seems to come up from nowhere and, in a blink or swallow, can infect everything.”

The above quotes come from Mark Nepo’s  The Book of Awakening,  August 30 entry page 284.  They succinctly express our relationship with fear.

Our feelings come and go as they please.  The power to control their effect lies squarely in how we choose to react.  I really resonate with Parker Palmer when he says, ‘I have other places within myself from which to speak and act.’

Fear is a powerful, useful emotion.  It alerts us to the threat of harm, to the presence of danger, physical and psychological.

Beyond the personal realm, fear can be used as a weapon of manipulation to gain control of others through religion, government, media, societal norms, and by individuals in inter-dependent relationships.

“Neither a man nor a crowd nor a nation can be trusted to act humanely or to think sanely under the influence of great fear.”  ~Bertrand Russell

The power to choose to entertain or not entertain fear is up to us.  Each of us finding the methods, tools and strategies that work toward overcoming our fears.  Last week’s blog,  Staying Calm and Centered,  is filled with practices, with actions we can take to master fear.

“He who has overcome his fears will truly be free.”  ~Aristotle

Blessings!

So much is outside our personal control right now, from the global pandemic and rampant unemployment, to the widespread raging wildfires, yet again. There is an almost unbearable uncertainty.  It is especially important to harness our inner resources in order to remain centered and not give way to the palpable anxiety that is all around. How?

This first tip comes from an article by Linda Esposito, LCSW, published in the Psychology Today blog, on May 14, 2014.

“Start Deep Breathing.

If you’re not focused on how to calm your body through slow, intentional belly-breathing, you’re missing out. Belly-breathing is free, location independent, and easy to implement. Here’s how to get started:

• Sit with your eyes closed and turn your attention to your breathing. Breathe naturally, preferably through the nostrils, without attempting to control your breath.
• Be aware of the sensation of the breath as it enters and leaves the nostrils. Place one hand on your belly, and the other on your chest. Take a deep breath for a count of four. Hold your breath for a count of three. Exhale for a count of four. The hand on your belly should go out as you inhale, and move in as you exhale.
• Concentrate on your breath and forget everything else. Your mind will be very busy, and you may even feel that the meditation is making your mind busier, but the reality is you’re just becoming more aware of how busy your mind is.
• Resist the temptation to follow the different thoughts as they arise, and focus on the sensation of the breath. If you discover that your mind has wandered and is following your thoughts, immediately return it to the breath.
• Repeat this as many times as necessary until your mind settles on the breath. Don’t wait to begin belly-breathing. The sooner you make this a daily habit, the quicker you’ll feel relaxed.

When you implement belly breathing, you start the day in a here-and-now state. Better yet, you’re not wasting time worrying about the future or reliving the past.”

Find the rest of the article here:  “21 Quick Tips to Change Your Anxiety Forever.”

The next tip on staying centered, comes from an article by Bess O’Connor, published in the Spirituality & Health blog, on November 30, 2015.

“10 Affirmation for Staying Centered”

“Staying centered is key in life. When you’re centered, you can avoid getting easily led astray, becoming out of balance, and getting swept up in the whirlwind that is life.

“Mana is a term originally used in Polynesian and Melanesian cultures to describe an extraordinary power or force residing in a person or an object, a sort of spiritual electricity that charges anyone who touches it.  Carl Jung later defined the term as ‘the unconscious influence of one being on another.’ What Jung speaks to is the fact that the energy of being real has more power than outright persuasion, debate, or force of will.  He suggests that being who we are always releases an extraordinary power that, without intent or design, affects the people who come in contact with such realness.

The beautiful and simple truth of this can be seen in looking at the sun.  The sun, without intent or will or plan or sense of principle, just shines, thoroughly and constantly.  By being itself, the sun warms with its light, never withholding or warming only certain things of the Earth.  Rather, the sun emanates in all directions all the time, and things grow.  In the same way, when we are authentic, expressing our warmth and light in all directions, we cause things around us to grow.  When our souls like little suns express the light of who we are, we emanate what Jesus called love and what Buddha called compassion, and the roots of community lengthen.

In this way, without any intent to shape others, we simply have to be authentic, and a sense of mana, of spiritual light and warmth, will emanate from our very souls, causing others to grow—not toward us, but toward the light that moves through us.  In this way, by being who we are, we not only experience life in all its vitality, but, quite innocently and without design, we help others be more thoroughly themselves.  In being real, in staying devoted to this energy of realness, we help each other grow toward the one vital light.”

~Mark Nepo, The Book of Awakening, pg. 106

Blessings!

We are all acutely aware of the controversy surrounding wearing a mask and practicing social distancing.  I believe social distancing is not an accurate term.

What we are, in fact, doing is physical distancing.  This behavior should be labeled as such.

The connotation that comes with social distancing implies a greater scope of relating to each other.  Socializing by definition is the act or practice of participating in social activities…mingling with others; inherent most social activity is physical closeness…movies, sports events, parades, fairs, family gatherings, weddings, funerals, etc.

Eye contact, smiles, hugs, and intimate conversations are all part of socializing.  But physical distancing limits or prohibits many of these activities.  However, it is critically important that we don’t forego social contact, creating isolation, anxiety and depression.  A smile can be seen in the eyes even when a mask covers most of the face.  Cards, letters, e-mails, texting, face time, zoom and connecting with friends and loved ones by phone are also part of social contact.

I invite you to practice physical distancing, but stay connected to others.

Blessings!

These are such stressful times.  I chose three short quotes upon which we can meditate.

“Every moment and every event of every man’s life on earth plants something in his soul.”  ~Thomas Merton

“Never give up.  Never give in.  Never become hostile… Hate is too big a burden to bear.”  ~John Lewis

“Keep your face always toward the sunshine – and shadows will fall behind you.”     ~Walt Whitman

Take good care!

Blessings.

Yes you are! Everyone is intuitive. In our culture most people don’t believe they are intuitive, and many people believe that intuition simply does not exist.

For proof, simply look at your own life experience. “I knew it was you!” is a common response to a phone call from family or friend. Intuition is like any other sense. And like the sense of taste, for example, it can be cultivated, trained and made a useful part of daily living.

Allow me to share a simple example from one of my clients (with her permission, of course.) It was time to buy new frying pans. She scoured the internet for weeks, studying all of the frying pan articles she could find, then reading nearly all of the customer reviews. She does enjoy doing the research! Finally she zeroed in on one brand, one model, and one general price, available from many different stores. Several times she was seconds away from pressing the Buy Button, but just could not bring herself to do it. Key point – she was paying attention to her own inner process and chose not to press the button. Days later, she happened to notice that one of the local stores was open for pick-up and she received a strong impulse to go, despite having other plans that afternoon. Again – paying attention. Once in the store, with the pans in front of her, she knew that the model she’d chosen online was not quite right. Instead, the perfect ones for her were on display nearby, AND on sale! Inner guidance is available to us if we quietly listen.

Take a few moments each day to observe your ‘intuitive’ experiences. Note ‘the way’ you receive the information, your particular style, and, learn to ‘trust’ the process. You will soon be on your way to understanding and using your extra sense.

Mindfulness is focusing on the present moment, on the now.  It means bringing conscious mind, day-dreaming mind, the deeper mind…the whole self, including it’s shadow aspects, fully into the moment.

Nothing, no thing we do is unimportant.  From the simple act of tying a shoe to the more complex actions and decisions that living demands, all are important.

As with meditation, breathing is essential…mindful breathing.  Focus on each breath.  Bring the full attention of your whole self to the rhythm of your breathing.  You will experience distraction, and when you do, bring the fullness of your attention back the passage of your breath.  As you practice, focusing will become easier.  The mind begins to clear, anxiety eases, a sense of peace and well-being grows steadily.  You can achieve a deeper harmony with the Divine.  Life gets better regardless of what is happening around you.

Bringing mindfulness and meditation together in daily practice is free.  And the investment of time and energy will pay great dividends.

“…shelter or protection from danger or stress; a place that provides shelter or protection.”  ~Merriam Webster

There are basic forms of refuge.  Being physically free of persecution and bodily harm, being free of emotional abuse in its myriad forms, these are refuges we most often seek.  Yet the least sought after and most powerful  is spiritual refuge.

“The wise man in the storm prays God, not for safety from danger, but for deliverance from fear.  It is the storm within which endangers him, not the storm without.”  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Spiritual refuge is the ultimate refuge.  Seeking safety, protection, comfort and shelter in the Divine Spirit of Love is compelling and effective.  To achieve this serenity demands discipline and faith.

“In a world full of fear, be courageous.  In a world full of lies, be honest.  In a world where few care, be compassionate.  In a world full of phonies, be yourself.  Because the world sees you.  The world hopes for you.  The world is inspired by you.  The world can be better because of you.”  ~Doe Zantamata

“Be your own lamp, seek no other refuge but yourself, Let truth be your light.”  ~Buddha

The world as we know it is changing rapidly and dramatically.  The dark forces are rising.  The light of fairness, justice, compassion, truth and morality grows dimmer each day.  But it will never be extinguished, because there are those who cherish it, secure it and nurture it, in all good faith, knowing that ultimately the Divine Light of Truth and Love will prevail.

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” ~Ps 46:1

As a nation we just celebrated our Independence Day.  I invite you to continue to carry the torch of spiritual refuge.  Be the shining light, the glimmer of hope that refuses to go out.

“He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty…my refuge and my fortress…in whom I trust.”  ~Ps 91: 1-2

Resilience wafted through my consciousness in the wee hours of the morning…it is July 4th.

Synonyms for resilience are: flexibility, strength, durability, pliability, sturdy and tough.  Synonyms so apt to surviving the intense and radical shifts humanity is experiencing circa 2020.

According to www.stressresilientmind.co.uk, the 5 skills of resilience are:

• self-awareness
• attention-flexibility and stability of focus
• letting go-physically
• letting go-mentally
• accessing and maintaining positive emotion

The Angel Cards Book  (Tyler & Drake, World Tree Press 1981),  has this wonderful quote for the Angel Card of Resilience, “Take what comes in your stride and let your energy rebound.  Build positive momentum, elasticity, and endurance.  Show up with equanimity regardless of what is going on.”

Great counsel for turbulent moments of change.

I invite you this week to nurture your spirit of resilience.

Blessings!