Archive for July, 2018
Thought
Thought is cognition, thinking, idea, opinion, belief, to name a few synonyms.
In the early 1800’s French physician, Anthelme Brillat-Savarin said, “Tell me what you eat, and I will tell you who you are.”
Buddha said, “We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think….”
“A man is but the product of his thoughts what he thinks, he becomes.” ~Mahatma Gandhi
Thoughts, emotions and feelings come and go as they please. We do not have control of this dynamic. However there is an essential key to managing the stressful aspects of this process, don’t entertain the negative energies.
“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature.” ~Marcus Aurelius
Fear is a powerful part of human experience. It can save life or destroy life. Lurking beneath worry, frustration, depression and anger, fear is usually found. We can choose to entertain fear, worry, anger and other negative energetic emotions or we can choose faith; we can choose to entertain positive energies.
Bills are due and money is short, fear and worry move right in and begin stealing confidence, trust and peace of mind. Catch them, and throw them out!
“A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results.” ~Wade Boggs
Taking charge of thought dynamics demands commitment. It is hard work, especially as it seems so much easier to surrender to the negative. However, this work pays great dividends. Good health, contentment, happiness, peace of mind, enhanced quality of life, personal fulfillment, joy and laughter to name a few.
This week I invite you to entertain positive thinking. Do it regally; treat it with abiding love and respect…treat it as your most prized possession.
Blessings!
Unexpected
The unexpected happens to everyone, and it happens often. It can be experienced individually or collectively. A brief power outage or a debilitating prolonged one, like Puerto Rico is still experiencing almost a year after Hurricane Maria.
Traumatic events, personal and collective leave us struggling to find balance, to cope with loss, grief and often disbelief. Every day as I drive through the savagely scarred landscape of the unprecedented North Bay wildfires, I still experience disbelief. As with Puerto Rico, and countless other places throughout history and around the world, so much of the familiar is gone…and it will never be the same.
“No one is so brave that he is not disturbed by something unexpected.” ~Julius Caesar
“There are uses to adversity, and they don’t reveal themselves until tested. Whether it’s serious illness, financial hardship, or the simple constraint of parents who speak limited English, difficulty can tap unexpected strengths.” ~Sonia Sotomayor
The will to survive, to overcome, to move forward is compelling. The ‘Sonoma Strong’ movement in my community remains active; driven by a shared experience, and a fervent desire to forge ahead.
“You have to take risks. We will only understand the miracle of life fully when we allow the unexpected to happen.” ~Paulo Coelho
The unexpected seldom appears as major events, such as those referenced above. The mundane every day routine is sprinkled generously with unexpected moments. The traffic jam that makes you late for work; the carrots essential to a dish you are making are mysteriously gone; the air conditioner stops working on a really hot day; the garbage disposal is suddenly leaking water everywhere; the dryer stops working, leaving a load of wet clothes to deal with; the party you were so excited about attending is cancelled at the last minute…the list is never ending.
“The shortest period of time lies between the minute you put money away for a rainy day and the unexpected arrival of rain.” ~Jane Bryant Quinn
The will to overcome the unexpected is a strong characteristic of human beings.
“Spirituality can release blocks, lead you to ideas, and make your life artful. Sometimes when we pray for guidance, we’re guided in unexpected directions. We may want a lofty answer and we get the intuition to clean our bedroom. It can seem so humble and picky that you don’t necessarily think of it as spiritual guidance.” ~Julia Cameron
The profound and the mundane are intimate companions on our journey through the world of the unexpected.
Blessings!
Flexibility
To be flexible is the ability to bend in a multitude of ways, physically, emotionally, financially, politically, romantically, spiritually and more.
“The ability to course correct without losing sight of the goal. Let go of narrow-mindedness, stay open to the flow, and keep current with new information.” ~Angel Card, Tyler & Drake
A culture, society, organization or community cannot survive or thrive without flexibility, nor can the individuals that comprise them.
“You have tremendous flexibility in defining both the greater good and the greater community. If you don’t succeed in this, then you will continue to pull that heavy wagon up the mountain, and despite the fact that you are pulling it, it will somehow run over your own foot.” ~Srikumar Roa
Many structures that appear to be rigid have a degree of flexibility built into them: cars, buildings, banking systems, tennis rackets for example. So too, our thinking and decision-making processes.
“Despite my firm convictions. I have always been a man who tries to face facts, and to accept the reality of life as new experience and new knowledge unfolds. I have always kept an open mind, a flexibility that must go hand in hand with every form of the intelligent search for truth.” ~Malcolm X
It is our willingness to be flexible, to not only listen, but to ‘hear’ the discourse of those with whom we differ. This quality makes a substantial and essential contribution to our physical, emotional and spiritual healthy maturation.
“If you think the aficionados of a living Constitution want to bring you flexibility, think again. You think the death penalty is a good idea? Persuade your fellow citizens to adopt it. You want a right to abortion? Persuade your fellow citizens and enact it. That’s flexibility.” ~Antonin Scalia
“Freedom always deals with ‘the possible’; this gives freedom its great flexibility, its fascination, and its dangers.” ~Rollo May
I invite you this week to examine the depth and breadth of your flexibility.
Blessings!
Refuge
“…shelter or protection from danger or stress; a place that provides shelter or protection.” ~Merriam Webster
There are basic forms of refuge. Being physically free of persecution and bodily harm, being free of emotional abuse in its myriad forms, these are refuges we most often seek. Yet the least sought after and most powerful is spiritual refuge.
“The wise man in the storm prays God, not for safety from danger, but for deliverance from fear. It is the storm within which endangers him, not the storm without.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
Spiritual refuge is the ultimate refuge. Seeking safety, protection, comfort and shelter in the Divine Spirit of Love is compelling and effective. To achieve this serenity demands discipline and faith.
“In a world full of fear, be courageous. In a world full of lies, be honest. In a world where few care, be compassionate. In a world full of phonies, be yourself. Because the world sees you. The world hopes for you. The world is inspired by you. The world can be better because of you.” ~Doe Zantamata
“Be your own lamp, seek no other refuge but yourself, Let truth be your light.” ~Buddha
The world as we know it is changing rapidly and dramatically. The dark forces are rising. The light of fairness, justice, compassion, truth and morality grows dimmer each day. But it will never be extinguished, because there are those who cherish it, secure it and nurture it, in all good faith, knowing that ultimately the Divine Light of Truth and Love will prevail.
“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” ~Ps 46:1
As a nation we just celebrated our Independence Day. I invite you to continue to carry the torch of spiritual refuge. Be the shining light, the glimmer of hope that refuses to go out.
“He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty…my refuge and my fortress…in whom I trust.” ~Ps 91: 1-2
Summer
Hot days, cool, lovely evenings; Wednesday we celebrate Independence Day, summer is in full swing.
“There is nothing I like better at the end of a hot summer’s day than taking a short walk around the garden. You can smell the heat coming up from the earth to meet the cooler night air.” ~Peter Mayle
The smell of crisp mornings and warm evenings, active bird life and buzzing bees, seasonal fruit, corn on the cob, BBQ’s are among the many pleasures that summer brings. I love the warmth, although as I have aged, the heat is more challenging.
“Ah, summer, what power you have to make us suffer and like it.” ~Russell Baker
Each season is unique. Gardens are rich and vibrant as Spring matures into Summer and the cadence is slower.
“Rest is not idleness, and to lie sometimes on the grass under trees on a summer’s day, listening to the murmur of the water, or watching the clouds float across the sky, is by no means a waste of time.” ~John Lubbock
Enjoy your summer!!
