Advice
There is wisdom in seeking good counsel…helpful advice. However, to secure wise counsel is to ask it of those who will be objective, compassionate and kind; and to risk hearing what we may not want to hear.
Seeking advice from those we love and respect is to trust that they will be equally respectful, loving and honest with their response.
“Many receive advice, only the wise profit from it.” ~Harper Lee
As the receiver of advice, it is important that we listen with an open mind and an open heart.
“Every man, however wise, needs the advice of some sagacious friend in the affairs of life.” ~Plautus
Ultimately, we make the final decisions. Good decisions come from our third chakra. Manipura, meaning ‘lustrous gem’, the center of personal power, confidence and self-esteem.
No other being is responsible for our choices, and the way we choose to live our life.
Giving advice can be tricky. If you are asked for your opinion, listen with an open heart and an open mind. Responding thoughtfully and appropriately with loving care and concern.
If you have not been asked for your insight, examine your motivation carefully before offering advice, and be prepared to be rejected, perhaps even vilified for your efforts.
“Advice is like snow – the softer it falls, the longer it dwells upon, and the deeper it sinks into the mind.” ~Samuel Taylor Coloridge
I was attracted to this quote by Jack Adams, as much for it’s humor as for it’s truth…”If it’s free, it’s advice; if you pay for it, it’s counseling; if you can use either one, it’s a miracle.”
I invite you to consider whom you choose to seek advice from, and how you choose to give advice to others.
Blessings!
