Tact
Tact is a key practice in psychospiritual development and maturity. Tact requires an understanding of others; their ideas, beliefs, opinions and feelings. It aids in effective communication, especially when dealing with difficult or delicate situations.
“Tact is the art of making a point without making an enemy.” ~Isaac Newton
The tactful use of words requires a judicious use of sensitivity, discernment, subtlety, skill, prudence and diplomacy. To attain fluency requires practice and good judgment. Applicable to all relationships, tactful dialogue improves communication and builds mutual respect.
“Don’t flatter yourselves that friendship authorizes you to say disagreeable things to your intimates. On the contrary, the nearer you come into relation with a person, the more necessary do tact and courtesy become.” ~Oliver Wendell Holmes Sr.
None of us will ever achieve perfection in the fullness of tactful expression. Emotional triggers are not always containable by the artful use of this powerful skill. However, commitment to daily practice as part of our spiritual discipline, will produce a high yield of authentic communication, self-esteem and inner peace.
“Tact is the intelligence of the heart.” ~Anonymous
Blessings!
